Original data reports and field guides on sex, intimacy, and relationships.
Waking a Partner with Sex: What Couples Want
Couples agreed more on waking a partner (64.6%) than on being woken (58.0%); men wanted it far more than women.
Report 006Restraints: Who Wants to Give, Who Wants to Receive
On restraints, the gender preference reverses: men lean toward restraining (75.9%), women toward being restrained (75.6%).
Report 005More Spontaneous Sex: What 253,240 Couples Want
Among 253,240 couples, 80.5% both said yes to more spontaneous sex; 94.6% had no explicit no.
Report 004Talking Dirty: Couples Want to Receive More Than Give
Couples both wanted to receive dirty talk (55.1%) more often than to give it (44.7%); men led on both sides.
Report 003A More Vocal Partner: What 398,512 Couples Want
Among 398,512 couples, 59.0% both said yes to a more vocal partner; 86.1% had no explicit no.
Report 002Sensual Massage: Who Wants to Give, Who Wants to Receive
On sensual massage, the gender preference reverses: men lean toward giving (82.0%), women toward receiving (83.5%).
Report 001Longer Foreplay: What 416,575 Couples Actually Want
Among 416,575 couples, 60.1% both said yes to longer foreplay; 83.9% had no explicit no.
The Yes/No/Maybe List: A Modern Couples' Guide
What a Yes/No/Maybe list is, why it builds consent in by design, how to read the six outcomes, and how to make one.
Field guideHow to Talk to Your Partner About Sex Without Awkwardness
Couples agree about what they want more than they say out loud. A research-backed guide to talking about sex without the awkwardness.
