Waking a Partner with Sex: What Couples Want

Couples agreed more on waking a partner (64.6%) than on being woken (58.0%); men wanted it far more than women.

Restraints: Who Wants to Give, Who Wants to Receive

On restraints, the gender preference reverses: men lean toward restraining (75.9%), women toward being restrained (75.6%).

More Spontaneous Sex: What 253,240 Couples Want

Among 253,240 couples, 80.5% both said yes to more spontaneous sex; 94.6% had no explicit no.

Talking Dirty: Couples Want to Receive More Than Give

Couples both wanted to receive dirty talk (55.1%) more often than to give it (44.7%); men led on both sides.

A More Vocal Partner: What 398,512 Couples Want

Among 398,512 couples, 59.0% both said yes to a more vocal partner; 86.1% had no explicit no.

Sensual Massage: Who Wants to Give, Who Wants to Receive

On sensual massage, the gender preference reverses: men lean toward giving (82.0%), women toward receiving (83.5%).

Longer Foreplay: What 416,575 Couples Actually Want

Among 416,575 couples, 60.1% both said yes to longer foreplay; 83.9% had no explicit no.